Do you listen? Do you listen to God?
It took me a little to realize this was a sin as well; not listening to Gods commands and obeying them. We can not ignore them!
After listening what then? He will teach you. Teach you to do Gods will. And guess what this is…TRIALS IN LIFE. This is where the training is. These trials help you to grow and to know God more deeper. Again we need to talk to God and listen. Ask Him what really should matter in your life. Remember you are not the same as your friends or neighbors.
I have a challenge for you (if this is not your strongpoint), take 5-10 minutes a day to be in silence. Choose a spot that you are able to go to every day. Make sure you are able to turn off all noises. Write on a piece of paper: God, what do you want to say to me today? Then listen.